A Little Perspective

There is nothing like death to put life into perspective.

My Uncle passed away last week from cancer.  Another Uncle passed away almost a year ago from cancer.  My Dad passed away almost 3 years ago, guess what, you got it-from cancer.  Cancer is an ugly disease and it knows no bounds. No one is untouchable.  We hear the term "cancer" all the time.  Almost everyone's lives have been touched by cancer in some way. The Doctor's try to "guesstimate", if you will, the time of death, but they do not know.  Only God knows.  They gave my Uncle 6 months or less 2 months ago.  It seems the "or less" is way too often the winner.  I don't think you can ever really prepare yourself for death, for losing someone you love.  The tears pour down and the heart aches.  The pain is insurmountable.

 I  traveled home for the funeral, and as I am dreading what is to come, I am also looking forward to being with my family and friends during this time. To hug them and talk with them is  a great comfort.  Everyone has gathered to mourn our lost loved one and pay their respects.  We grieve for our loss, but we should rejoice in their gain. They are in heaven, they are at rest, they are in a better place then we are.  They are no longer hurting or suffering, but welcomed with open arms by Jesus and the loved ones that went on before them. 

It is amazing sometimes how death can bring a family closer together.  It can mend a friendship, it can heal a bitter heart, it can make you hug longer and say "I love you" a little more often.  You suddenly realize what really matters.  Your husband forgot to take the trash out, big deal, he didn't do it on purpose.  Your toddler pitches another fit, try to smile, at least he/she is healthy and remember "this too shall pass"!  Your wife is nagging you about leaving your socks on the floor, pick them up and make her happy! Your co-worker makes a snide comment, maybe they are having a bad day, smile anyway, it may make them feel better, and I am certain it will  make you feel better. My point is, none of it really matters.  No one is perfect, we all are just a "work in progress."   And every breath we breathe is a gift from God.  Always give 100% of yourself, smile bigger, love stonger and laugh even harder.  This life is too short to sweat the small stuff, put some perspective on it,  and grant yourself LIFE!